Scorpio – How To Romance, Understand and Buy The Perfect Gift For A Scorpio
There is plenty more to even your very average Scorpio than being a siren of sensuality but their sexiness is as good a place to start as any! So what makes a Scorpio so attractive? Scorpio, the eighth sign of the zodiac, is the sun sign populated with individuals who just ooze a heady sex appeal from every pore though many a Scorpio can be blissfully unaware of this fact.
For all their charms both Scorpio ladies and gentlemen alike are earthy creatures. Scorpio men tend to have a somewhat broody countenance. Five minutes in their company and you’ll discover a warmth and sense of humour often with a rather silly edge to it. The female of the species may look like a deadly femme fatale or silver screen siren but she’s as likely to suggest a rugby match for a romantic date as a candle lit dinner at an exclusive restaurant. They have their almost irresistible allure, certainly, but a surprising lack of arrogance that makes Scorpios more sexy still. You won’t find too many dandies or precious princesses born under this sign.
Sexy Scorpios are pleasure seekers though, unlike the out and out hedonists born under the sun sign of Taurus, Scorpios love to give as much as they enjoy receiving be that pleasures of the flesh or the taste buds – in fact any sensory experiences. You’ll find a great many Scorpios who are superb and adventurous cooks or have a real passion for food and drink though you will find very few Scorpio gluttons.
Passion is the key word when describing the Scorpio character. These are individuals who, once they commit themselves to a person, cause or career dedicate themselves to it wholly. Scorpios have a keen and highly developed sense of justice and morality. Even if that moral code may differ from general expectations of society, a Scorpio will stay true to it. These are not creatures prone to bandwagon hopping and can be very set in their ways in this sense. Indeed, you may feel the Scorpion’s sting should you expect them to deviate or make allowances for others who do not live up to their own high standards.
The positive side of this is that Scorpios make excellent social workers, politicians, advocates, barristers and even judges. They care passionately about people and will always stand up for the under dog. A Scorpio makes a great ally. Just like their symbol, the scorpion, are able to slay those of far greater stature than they.
The average Scorpio is independent and fiercely protective of friends and family. If you want a second date, or to land a first one, making a jibe, however good natured about a Scorpio’s friend will scupper your chances even if the Scorpio target of your affections is in total agreement with you. Get a Scorpio chatting about his or her favourite cause and you will be there all night but only if you can keep up. A Scorpio will respect a well though out opinion on even the topics about which they are most passionate whether you are in agreement or not. A good debate is a Scorpio’s idea of a good time especially as passions rise – a characteristic they have in common with fellow Earth sign, Capricorn.
Loyalty is the key to a successful relationship with a Scorpio. You can count on it from them but you cannot expect them to tolerate even a minor lapse. As well as utterly adoring you sensational Scorpio, your amour will expect you to loathe and despise those he or she loathes as despises and yes, a Scorpio’s emotions can reach these extremes. Commitment is the Scorpio’s dream and though loyal, they will soon lose interest and become morose if you cannot keep them physically, emotionally and spiritually stimulated – even if that means regular lovers’ tiffs and the all important making up afterwards.
Woo a Scorpio by finding out their intellectual hot buttons and swatting up on that topic. They will love you for making such a commitment to getting to know them and learn about what they love. You will find, given time, the favour will be reciprocated. If a Scorpio has you in his or her sights, play hard to get but never distant. Well, do this if you can resist a sultry Scorpio for more than a heart beat!
Scorpio’s love sensory stimulation. A great date would be a food festival or wine tasting event followed by a few drinks at a cosy pub for a nice long chat. Scorpio’s love conversation but do not like to dominate it and do not appreciate any body else doing so either.
Fine wines make an excellent gift for a Scorpio. If you are really out to impress though, another option would be exotic or unusual liqueurs. Scorpios love good food and a cookery course, perhaps in a favourite ethnic cuisine would be a sensational present especially if you book yourself on the course too and the experience can be shared. Scorpios are adventurous by nature and love to experience new things. Gift days that incorporate a rich sensory diet will be enjoyed and remembered for a long time to come. Does you Scorpio love chocolate? Well, why not enjoy some chocolates on a balloon flight?
A Scorpio also needs regular intellectual stimulation. Subscriptions to favourite magazines will go down well with a Scorpio. Or, why not push the boat out? A theatre trip with an overnight stay in a boutique hotel.
Just as a Scorpio values commitment so he or she values permanence. If you are considering buying you Scorpio sweet heart a piece of jewellery opt for real gem stones (topaz is the birth stone for Scorpio) or if your budget won’t stretch quite that far, semi precious stones in steel and charcoal colours. Generally, Scorpios prefer silver to gold, perhaps because of the time of year they are born just as the nights draw in and the silvery moon is high in the sky.